What did you want to be when you grew up? It’s a silly question, and one we seem to stop asking ourselves as the years pass, but what happens to these dreams? How do they evolve, change, or actualize; what do I want to be when I’ve already grown up? So, I asked people of all ages what they want to be or what they hope to see. This is what I found:

When I grow up, what I want to be is anything I could ever dream.
Veterinarians, hairdressers, police officers, and teachers; I want to help those in need.
My dreams are my own, with no thought of the challenges that lie ahead of me.
I can’t wait to grow up and see who I’ll be…

All I could ever dream of being
The future is looking bright in Mrs. Schmidt’s first-grade class. From aspiring law enforcement to the next generation of educators, these students are motivated by a common goal: making an impact. Tommy dreams of becoming a principal to set the rules, and Sadie hopes to care for animals as a veterinarian. Inspired by the figures they interact with daily, these six- and seven-year-olds see their communities as a blueprint for the future. Their dreams are mirrors of the world we build for them.
From princess to pop star, BMX racer to rock star… when I was a little kid, I had lots of dreams, but the overarching theme was always the same: to be heard and seen. From days spent piecing together puzzles and charging my family twenty-five cents to view these “installations” in the hallway, I have always been in love with the experience of art. Playing pretend, dreaming of what I could be, became a pathway through which I could envision my future. Now, as a senior Sound Studies and Communication major, my research is the culmination of that lifelong curiosity: an exploration of the invisible, auditory layers that shape our visual world. While I may be grown, I am still that girl in the hallway. Only now, the dress-up box has been replaced by internships, and passions worth pursuing.

Photo courtesy of Mariann Schmidt
Dreams of potential…

When I grow up, what I want to be is the ideal version of me.
Researchers, musicians, and engineers — but I have dreams beyond just a career.
When I look around, I see a community filled with dreams like mine.
I can’t wait to grow up and let my true self shine…

On camera and behind the scenes
Luz is a member of the ESPN+ production crew at Manhattan University, where she is mastering the art of sports media from every angle. “My ultimate goal is to be on TV,” she says, “whether that’s as a sideline reporter, commentator, or host. At the same time, I also really enjoy the technical side of the industry.” Being a part of Manhattan’s production crew allows Luz to try a range of behind-the-scenes roles like technical directing, graphics, replay, and camera operation.
Just like the sports she covers, Luz knows that breaking into sports media is a team effort. She credits much of her development to the community she has found at Manhattan University. “My professors and classmates have supported me and helped me grow, in addition to the connections I’ve made through working on our ESPN+ games,” Luz notes. “I’ve also been building connections with the commentators who work with our school and for ESPN, which has given me valuable insights.”
Luz is growing in a community she has planted herself in, full of like-minded peers. The community we choose becomes a reflection of the future we are building, a collaborative environment where every connection brings a once-distant dream into clearer focus.

The band without a name
Nick, Ethan, Kevin, and Edwin are deep in the process of recording an EP set to release at the beginning of May. They pour most of their free time into writing and polishing every track to make their studio sessions as productive as possible— even if, on the day I dropped by, rehearsal did technically start an hour late…
As college seniors, they all share a mutual dread for the one question they weren’t happy I asked: “What are your plans for next year?” Their paths forward are as diverse as the different energies they bring to the band.

Kevin will be finishing his degree with the shorter-term goal of also finding an internship. Ethan, meanwhile, plans to pursue a master’s while continuing to “do more of this,” gigging and writing to see just how far the band can go. Edwin is set on trying to make a career in live mixing and production, and the same goes for Nick, though the goals for the coming year that Nick shared with me are a bit more grounded: “Making enough to pay rent,” he said.

Because this EP serves as a capstone project for Nick and Edwin, there’s a lot more riding on these sessions than just having fun. I asked Nick about his dreams and what he wants to be; about 30 minutes into when rehearsal was supposed to start, he simply said: “I don’t allow myself to dream anymore.” His tone carried a hint of frustration, directed both at my question and reality.
While these four are united by the goal of this EP, the weight of that shared dream becomes much heavier when the “what comes next” starts to come into focus. Our communities are the results of our individual dreams, but when the dream is fractured by separate realities, the actualization of “making it” becomes that much harder.

“Patriae Multae Spes Una”
“One hope of many people” is written on the crest of Sigma Delta Tau sorority. Founded by seven Jewish women at Cornell University, these women sought to create a space that respected the individuality of its members regardless of their religious affiliation. Now, 109 years after its inception, women across the United States rush SDT and carry on the dream of its founders. A key component of the sorority’s mission is its dedication to philanthropy. Sigma Delta Tau’s philanthropic partners include both Prevent Child Abuse America (PCAA) and Jewish Women International (JWI).
At the Delta Mu chapter of SDT at Manhattan University, this commitment comes to life through their fundraising efforts on the quad. From bake sales to garage sales, these women share a commitment to making an impact beyond their campus community. However, for the sisters of Delta Mu, the money raised is only half the story. “During our fundraisers, we’ve started putting out resources that explain exactly why we are supporting a specific organization,” said SigDelt’s Vice President of Philanthropy. “Our goal isn’t just to raise money for JWI and PCAA; it’s to educate the campus community about these causes and share the deeper purpose behind our efforts.” Through their commitment to advocacy and humanitarianism, the Delta Mu chapter ensures that the hope of their founders remains a vibrant light. It’s a dream that goes beyond individual aspiration; it’s a hope that there’s a better tomorrow for all of us.
Another path forward
Once in a while, we’re granted the opportunity to pivot, to make the changes that help us pave our path forward. At 21, while attending community college, Mike met a recruiter and, having always been fascinated by serving in the infantry, enlisted in the Marines. After four years of service, he found himself back at a crossroads. Without a clear vision for life after the military, a friend’s recommendation brought him to Manhattan University, and its reputation for supporting its veteran community made the decision easy.
“If the Veteran Success Center wasn’t here, I wouldn’t be here,” he said.

Now a psychology major, Mike hopes to one day give back to fellow veterans the way others have given to him by pursuing social work. He was honest, though, about where he stands: only in his second semester, he’s still finding his way. He acknowledged that this is the plan for now, but there is still plenty of time to figure it out — something that’s often overlooked in a world that expects you to find your passion early and commit to it. The path doesn’t have to be certain when the community holding you up is.
Dreams of impact…

I think I’m done growing up, but so much life lies ahead of me.
While my dreams are few and far between, I’m focused on how I can impact my community.
Maybe I dream of being a grandparent or getting my PhD, but I hold onto the hope of leaving the world a little better than I found it.
When I grow up, I hope to see if my impact outlives me..

When opportunity presents itself
For roughly two years, Alex has served as a firefighter with Engine 52, Ladder 52. Having always been drawn to the profession, he seized the opportunity to take the exam and, though the process took several years, it was a wait he has no regrets about. When I asked him how he feels settling into his career, he was ambitious in his answer: he’s happy with his choice, but also has his sights set on making lieutenant or even captain one day. Our communities don’t exist without the bravery of those in protective services, and Alex understands that better than most. For him, the most rewarding part of the job is seeing the direct impact he has on the people around him.
“Someone is probably having the worst day of their life, and you’re the one who’s there to help them,” he said. That sense of purpose is what drives Alex forward, and what makes the long road to get here worth every step.
What I was always meant to be
Our dreams and ambitions are only as dynamic as we allow them to be. When I asked my mom when she first realized she wanted to teach, her answer was a mix of destiny and discovery. The realization didn’t fully click until she was a college student pivoting away from a chemistry major. “Growing up, I remember always coming home to play ‘school’ with my Barbies,” she said.
Now, as a first-grade teacher for 30 years, she says the most rewarding part of the job is witnessing the explosive period of growth that happens at this age. “You have kids who can’t read when they enter first grade, and they leave being able to read, write, and solve math problems. It’s such a developmental year, and it’s also so special to see them grow as people as they become more independent and form relationships.”

Since she claims she is “done growing up,” I asked what she hopes for the next generation of students. Her answer was simple: “No matter what changes, kids need to be kids, playing with Play-Doh and building with blocks. With all the research coming out about the impact of technology and screen time on this age group, I’m hoping to create an environment that still fosters those creative and critical thinking skills.”
My mom is living her dream, but the longer she lives it, the less it belongs to her alone — it has quietly become a dream for the children who walk through her classroom door, trying to find their own.

A slice of something great
Some paths don’t announce themselves—they reveal themselves gradually, one step at a time. Mike started by delivering pizza, then found himself working in a shop, and before long, the direction he’d always been moving toward came into focus. Since 1998, he has been a co-owner of Goodfellas Pizza, building something of his own alongside his partner, Charlie—nearly three decades and counting.
Being your own boss, he says, is as rewarding as it is demanding. The job shifts in the most microscopic ways, and no two days are quite the same. Having started his family later in life, Mike thinks often about the years ahead. The goal, as he sees it, is straightforward: keep doing something you love for as long as you can, and set yourself up so that eventually, work becomes a choice rather than a necessity.
“Do something you enjoy,” he said. “I would have loved to have been a guitarist or worked in a guitar store—I’d even do it for free.” He carries that dream not as regret, but as the clearest advice he knows to pass on to anyone still figuring out their path: find the thing you’d do for free, and follow it.
“Whatever is to be will come to me”
“It was during my first year of college,” Fr. Edward Beck recalled when I asked when he first felt called to religious life. “I wasn’t thinking of doing this at all. At the time, I was preparing for a career on Wall Street, but I felt very disenchanted with what I saw and the idea that it should be my future.”
Now a member of the Campus Ministry team at Manhattan University, Fr. Beck finds his greatest reward in walking alongside students as they navigate their struggles and questions. For him, fulfillment comes from providing a safe space where the team’s presence makes a tangible difference in the lives of students.

When asked what he envisions for the chapters yet to come, Fr. Beck admits that his path has rarely been a matter of personal mapping. “I’ve been a priest now 40 years, and I think everything I’ve done, I didn’t really choose to do,” he explains. “I didn’t pursue it; it kind of came to me in different ways, which is part of the vow of obedience. So, I don’t really think ahead, like ‘I’m going to do this or that.’ I wait for it to come to me. I trust that if I’m granted more years, whatever is to be will come. I just try to stay with the present.” It’s a powerful reminder that sometimes the most profound “return on investment” doesn’t come from a career on Wall Street, but from the singular, courageous pivot toward a life of purpose.

Bill of all trades
Every generation of young adults faces the same daunting task: figuring out the rest of their lives the moment they graduate. After his graduation, my grandfather said, “I knew that if I hung around and did nothing, I would have gotten drafted by 18 and gone into the Army. Now, the Vietnam War hadn’t started then, but I just didn’t want to be in the Army. So, I thought I should go into the Navy, because there I could learn a trade, and I could see a bit of the world.”

His time in the service didn’t just fulfill an obligation; it provided a blueprint. After three years, he transitioned into civilian life at Rohm and Haas, working on boilers. “I sort of let my time in the Navy be my guide,” he told me. “Being a boiler operator is a pretty good job; it’s what I did during my time in the service, and so I just started doing that.”
But he didn’t stop there, and beyond being a boiler technician, he would go on to become a hairdresser. “I knew it was a business that nobody seemed to want, and my dad was getting ready to retire. So, I figured, well, let me try that.” And after hairdressing, at the age of 50, Bill went back to school to learn and be certified for HVAC. Even after retiring, he worked at a car rental company and now, at 83, currently works in transportation for a local boarding school.
In a world that pressures us to “find our passion” early and stick to it, my grandfather’s life proves that you are never locked into a single identity. Having dreams isn’t always about following one plan; sometimes it’s about having the courage to look at a new opportunity and say, “Let me try that.”

Photo courtesy of William O’Hara
And as we reach the final stages of our life, our dreams, our will, is not our own…

I lived my dreams, then wished them for you.
Though I am gone, those dreams live on in the people I loved.
They live on in you.
